The Thing About Marriage 🤟

Marriage is one of the most profound investments you can make in life. Like any investment, what you put into it is exactly what you will get out of it. Each day brings countless choices that shape your relationship, your connection, and your love for your spouse. It’s in these daily choices that we have the power to move beyond just “getting by” and instead, create a marriage that truly thrives.

Here are a few choices we’ve decided to make to stay committed to thriving, not just surviving:

1. Seek Jesus Together

Putting Jesus at the center of our marriage has been transformative. When we seek Him together, we find that our relationship is grounded in a love that is far greater than our own. Praying together, reading the Bible, and attending church as a couple have all deepened our bond and strengthened our faith.

2. Laugh Together

Laughter is the best medicine, especially in marriage. We’ve learned not to take ourselves too seriously and to find joy in the little moments. Whether it’s inside jokes or spontaneous dance parties in the kitchen, laughter keeps us connected and lightens even the heaviest of days.

3. Forgive Easily

Holding onto grudges can create a wall between you and your spouse. We’ve chosen to forgive quickly and fully, remembering that we’re both human and prone to mistakes. Forgiveness brings freedom, allowing us to move forward with grace and love.

4. Date Each Other

Even after years of marriage, we make an effort to keep dating. It’s about keeping the romance alive, stepping out of our daily routines, and rediscovering each other over and over again. Date nights remind us of why we fell in love in the first place.

5. Put Your Marriage Before the Kids

Our children are incredibly important to us, but we believe that a strong marriage is the foundation of a healthy family. We make a point to prioritize our relationship, knowing that the best gift we can give our kids is a loving, united home.

6. Get Away for the Night

Sometimes, you just need a change of scenery. Getting away for a night, even if it’s just to a nearby hotel or a cozy bed and breakfast, helps us reconnect without distractions. It’s a mini reset for our marriage, reminding us of our love and commitment

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7. Encourage Each Other

Life can be tough, but knowing you have someone who is always in your corner makes all the difference. We strive to build each other up, offering words of encouragement and affirmation regularly. It’s amazing how powerful a simple “I believe in you” can be.

8. Pray for Each Other Separately & Together

We make it a habit to pray for each other both separately and together. There’s something beautiful about lifting your spouse up to God, asking for His blessings and guidance in their life. It creates a spiritual bond that goes beyond words.

9. Listen Intentionally

Communication is the key to any successful marriage, but it goes beyond just talking. We’ve learned the importance of truly listening to each other—not just hearing words, but understanding emotions, needs, and desires. Intentional listening fosters empathy and connection.

10. Serve Each Other

Marriage is not a 50/50 effort; it’s 100/100. We’re committed to serving each other daily, whether through acts of kindness, taking on tasks, or simply being there when it matters most. When both partners choose to serve, love naturally grows.

Each day presents a new opportunity to invest in our marriage, and I am committed to giving my best. These choices have made a tremendous difference in our relationship, turning everyday moments into extraordinary memories.

What about you? What’s the most impactful advice you’ve received for relationships or marriage? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Remember, you can never go wrong investing in your marriage. What you sow is what you will reap. Let’s choose to thrive together, every single day. 🌿💍